It looks to me as though boys are looking for attention.

God's Boys will be good boys!

I never saw a boy dance on the steps like Adam Savani. He was doing a dance in front of this little girl and it was cute and friendly and amusing. Not really seductive, I don't think. It looks like boys don't have cute ornaments on them like jewelry and bows and Adam looked like he wanted to be looked at with that kind of cutesy pie thoughts that we often dote upon little girls.
We have to know the difference in our souls between coveting what the girls have and being who the girls are. Dance sometimes loses that distinction. To learn to be masculine, even in your desire for that kind of attention is real and could be good. Beware of emulating the girls to get the attention that they get. God made men to be the pursuer and not the doted on one. There will be the one woman who will dote upon you and fulfill that need. In the meantime, be patient.